69, sixty-nine

“69” is a sexual position in which two partners simultaneously pleasure each other orally. In this position, the partners lie on top of each other in a way that their heads point in opposite directions and their genitals can reach each other. It allows both partners to receive sexual stimulation simultaneously.


British parlance for anal sex, also known as bite the pillow, BUFU, boom fun, dookie love, fifth base, punch the starfish, dance the chocolate cha-cha, ride the hershey highway, or just plain Greek.

Blow job
A “blow job” is a colloquial term for oral stimulation of a male partner’s penis using the mouth, lips, and tongue. This form of sexual activity is often practiced as foreplay or as a main part of sexual intercourse and can involve various techniques and variations.

Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism – a catch-all to refer to the various aspects of negotiated, mutually consensual exchange of power between two consenting adults. To divide in a Sub (submissive) and a Dom (dominant). 

A person who identifies as heterosexual but is open to other experiences.

A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men and thus has the best of both worlds.


Oral stimulation on a woman, coming from the Neo-Latin words for vulva (cunnus) and tongue (lingua), also known as DATY (dining at the Y).

Deep Throat
“Deep Throat” is a sexual practice in which the penis is inserted as deeply as possible into the mouth and throat of the partner. The goal is to take the penis deep into the throat, often reaching the so-called “Deep Throat” position. This practice often requires relaxation and coordination on the part of the receiving partner and can be perceived as particularly intense. It is important to proceed with caution and sensitivity to avoid injury. The term “Deep Throat” originally comes from pornography and became known through the film of the same name from the 1970s.

Implants, most commonly breast implants, but a lot can be done nowadays, such as butt implants, for that Kim Kardashian look, and apparently men are getting more and more pectoral implants, to create a sixpack, or calf implants, as if they have been running a lot. Some of our ladies have breast implants, when they don’t it says ‘natural’ next to their bra size.

Erotic Massages
An erotic massage is a form of physical intimacy that aims to promote sexual arousal and pleasure. Unlike traditional massages, which focus more on relaxation and tension relief, an erotic massage aims to build erotic tension and enhance sexual desire.
French Kissing
“French Kissing” is an informal term for intense kissing in which partners open their mouths and bring their tongues into contact with each other. This type of kissing is also known as “tongue kissing.” During French Kissing, partners gently explore each other’s mouths and tongues with their own, kissing passionately and tenderly.
Grilfriend Expirience
“The Girlfriend Experience” (abbreviated as GFE) refers to a type of service that aims to provide an experience similar to that of a romantic partner or girlfriend. This can include a variety of activities that go beyond just sexual contact.
Golden shower
A “Golden Shower” is a sexual practice in which one person urinates on the body of another person. This practice can take various forms, including directly applying urine to the partner’s body or incorporating it into sexual activities such as intercourse or oral sex while the urine is flowing.
A “handjob” is a sexual act in which one person manually stimulates a partner’s genitals with their hand to achieve sexual arousal and satisfaction. During a handjob, the person typically moves their hand up and down or in circular motions along the penis (in the case of male partners) or the clitoris and vulva (in the case of female partners) to generate sexual stimulation.
An orgasm is a peak of sexual arousal reached through intense physical and emotional stimulation, often accompanied by feelings of satisfaction and relaxation. During an orgasm, individuals experience a series of rhythmic muscle contractions in the pelvic area, accompanied by an intense feeling of pleasure. In men, orgasm usually coincides with ejaculation, while women do not typically show physical signs of ejaculation during orgasm.
Relaxing Massage
A “Relaxing Massage” is a massage that aims to promote relaxation and rejuvenation. In contrast to erotic massages, which focus on promoting sexual arousal and pleasure, a relaxing massage focuses on relaxing the entire body and creating an atmosphere of tranquility and serenity.
Exploring sexual fantasies within a specific scenario where participants are assigned roles. Classics include the professor and the student, the tradesperson, the voyeur, or doctor and nurse.
“Safe sex” refers to sexual activities aimed at minimizing the risk of transmitting sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV, as well as unintended pregnancy. Safe sex practices include the use of condoms or other barrier methods to prevent contact with bodily fluids such as blood, semen, and vaginal secretions.
“Squirting” refers to the release of fluid from the female genitalia during sexual arousal or stimulation. This fluid is often emitted from the urethra and can occur during orgasm.
Swingers club
A “swingers club” is a venue where couples or individuals interested in swinging gather to exchange sexual activities with other couples or individuals. Swinging refers to the practice where couples swap sexual partners or engage in group sex with other couples.
Tantric Massage

A tantric massage is a type of massage based on the principles of Tantra, an ancient spiritual tradition from India. The goal of a tantric massage is to harmonize the body, mind, and soul and establish a deeper connection between the recipient and the masseur.

In contrast to conventional massages, tantric massage focuses less on eliminating muscle tension and pain and more on unfolding sexual energy and achieving deep relaxation and conscious presence. The massage involves gentle touches, strokes, and kneading of the entire body, with special attention given to erogenous zones. Breathing also plays an important role in directing and harmonizing the energy in the body.

A “threesome” is a sexual activity involving three people.